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| Two extremes close to each other |
Since we were not able to take our family trip to the U.S. Virgin Islands to celebrate
my birthday, my daughters, Caty and Becca, and I decided to take a
short trip to California. We wanted to mix a little nature with showbiz. And, we wanted some warmth and ocean breezes.
It was
a nice trip, but there were a number of disappointments. First, getting tickets to shows is so difficult.
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| Corona del Mar |
Caty tried
for The Ellen Show, but, apparently that is just plain impossible, and a lot of
the impossibility seems to be the process (or lack of process) being used. You
can apply for ONLY one show at a time (other shows let you put in for multiple
days to better cover your bases). Then, you are never rejected – you just don’t
hear back. So, there is no way to plan a visit to The Ellen Show when you are going to be
in town. On my way home from the trip, I overheard a woman who had flown to LA
specifically to see Ellen AFTER she found out she had tickets. I didn’t get a
chance to ask her how many years she had been trying.
Similarly, the night-time talk shows are tricky. You can
apply for multiple days for The Late Late Show with James Cordon, but you don’t
get your rejection notification until the day before the show. For Jimmy Kimmel
Live!, you have to go stand in line on the day of the show.
I guess you just have to be in stand-by at all times.
I guess you just have to be in stand-by at all times.
Sitcoms are a bit easier, but there really aren’t too many
choices because there aren’t many shoots in front of live audiences anymore. We
failed to get tickets to The Big Bang Theory, but did get some for The Price is Right, Mom and
Superior Donuts. We ended up not going to Mom because Caty wouldn’t be in town
yet and it was a long drive from where we were staying. And, we just couldn't stomach five hours of The Price is Right, especially since none of us know prices!. We did go to Superior
Donuts, which I will talk about later.
We choose Seal Beach because we wanted to go whale watching
and we had contemplated going to Catalina Island, both of which are out of nearby Long Beach.
The most affordable house we could find was in Seal Beach.
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| Catalina Island from Crystal Cove State Beach |
The whole idea of a house was easy beach access and a place
to hang out (plus having two bathrooms is good for three women traveling
together). We got the house, which had many positive reviews, through Homeaway.
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| Yuck |
The house itself (actually an apartment) was upstairs from the owners. It did have parking, which is nice.
But, it was not very clean and it was very
dark. It was sandwiched between very closely packed
buildings, it didn’t have enough lamps and some of the
bulbs were burned out.
The outdoor open staircase to the unit was so dark (the light was burned out) that I had to use my cell phone flashlight to go up and down.
The ads said the house sleeps 11. One bedroom had a queen-sized bed and the other had TWO queen-sized beds and a single bed (it was a maze crawling between the beds). We figure the beds would sleep seven -- I guess the rest would have to sleep on couches!
The outdoor open staircase to the unit was so dark (the light was burned out) that I had to use my cell phone flashlight to go up and down.
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| A bird! |
It had a kitchen and a fridge, so we were able to cook our
own breakfast, but the dingy not-so-clean interior (especially the gross carpet
and leaky faucets) didn’t make us want to hang out too much.
On a positive note, we could walk to dinner and we saw a beautiful Cooper's Hawk near the house.
I have not been overly impressed with a lot of the private houses I have stayed in (there have been a few nice ones). I think I’d rather stay at accommodations run by real hoteliers than by private citizens.
All three of us flew into LAX – at different times – so I
made multiple trips through LA. The traffic is as bad as you’ve been told. A
little better late at night, but bad at all times. And, it took me forever to
get out of the airport the day I arrived because Thrifty Rental Car seems to have less shuttle buses than all
other rental car providers. I don’t care if I never have to fly in or out of
LAX or drive on those highways again.
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| Double yuck! |
And, has been my issue all this year, the weather was not
what one expects in LA. It was gray, foggy and rainy most – but, fortunately,
not all – of the time.
So those were the issues we were
dealing with. We still managed to have a good time.
While Seal Beach isn’t that impressive, there are some
gorgeous beaches south of there. Our favorites were Corona del Mar and Crystal Cove State Park.
Corona del Mar is in the town of Newport Beach. It is crescent-shaped with both sand ...
... and rock formations ...
Although it was somewhat cool when we went there, there were a few surfers (in this case, a sort of hybrid paddle board surfer) ...
... and children playing on the beach. It's amazing how kids just don't feel the cold. Becca did stick her feet in the water ...
She said it was cold, but not too bad. We never did go swimming, however. To me, the Pacific is just too chilly.
Corona del Mar is ringed by multi-million-dollar houses on the cliffs above ...
So, it is definitely a developed beach. The cost to visit is just for parking. So, if you walked in, it would be free.
Crystal Cove State Park, located on the Pacific Coast Highway between Corona del Mar and Laguna Beach, is rustic, with lots of sea
grass and a steep descent down to the beach, which was partially sand and
partially rock. Crystal Cove has 3.2 miles of beach, 2,400 acres of backcountry wilderness, an offshore underwater area and a federally listed Historic District with 46 vintage rustic coastal cottages originally built as a seaside colony in the 1930s and 40s. Of course, we just visited the beach.
You pay a $15 fee that will get you into any State Beach or State Park for the day. There are a number of State Parks/Beaches along the coast.
We managed to hit both beaches during two sunny periods, including a nice sunset at Crystal Cove ...
Corona del Mar is in the town of Newport Beach. It is crescent-shaped with both sand ...
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| Sand |
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| Becca |
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| Surfer |
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| Becca |
Corona del Mar is ringed by multi-million-dollar houses on the cliffs above ...
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| Nice digs |
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| Corona del Mar is the setting for the TV show Arrested Development |
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| Overlook |
We managed to hit both beaches during two sunny periods, including a nice sunset at Crystal Cove ...
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| Sunset |
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| Janet, Cassin's Kingbird, White-Crowned Sparrow |
and California and Western Gulls …
We also made a quick stop at Bolsa Chica Ecological Reserve.
When we were first looking for a house, I was excited that the huge Seal Beach National Wildlife Refuge was right next door. It turns out that it is situated on the Seal Beach Naval Weapons Station (!) and is open only one day per month (of course not a day we were there). But, then I discovered that Bolsa Chica State Beach and the Bolsa Chica Ecological Reserve were just a bit further down the Pacific Coast Highway.
There were a fair number of birds, but I think it was too early in the season for great variety.
Plus, the surrounding area was fenced with ugly chain link -- oh, and it was foggy -- so I didn't spend much time there.
We also saw a California/Western Brush rabbit ... I didn't even know there was such thing as a Brush rabbit.
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| Juvenile and adult |
When we were first looking for a house, I was excited that the huge Seal Beach National Wildlife Refuge was right next door. It turns out that it is situated on the Seal Beach Naval Weapons Station (!) and is open only one day per month (of course not a day we were there). But, then I discovered that Bolsa Chica State Beach and the Bolsa Chica Ecological Reserve were just a bit further down the Pacific Coast Highway.
There were a fair number of birds, but I think it was too early in the season for great variety.
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| Willets, Dowitchers, Godwits, Greater Yellowlegs, Plovers and who knows what else |
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| Clockwise: Ridgeway's Rail (new), American Avocet, female Bufflehead, Marbled Godwit |
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| Western Brush Rabbit |
It was rainy as we drove to Joshua Tree, but it had let up
by the time we got there. And, while we didn’t get the bright blue skies and
puffy clouds we would have liked, we also managed to stay dry and take some
pictures.
There wasn’t much in the way of wildlife. We saw a few Red-Tailed Hawks and a fairly large number of Phainopepla. These birds are shaped like
Cardinals, but have their own coloration. The females are a dark slate gray. The males are black (with the back
being slightly grayer than the head and breast). Both have red eyes and very cool crests.
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| Joshua Tree |
I also saw some Vultures, plus a Cactus Wren in, of
all places, the Visitor Center parking lot …
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| Cactus Wren |
But, overall, not much.
The Oasis Visitor Center is in the town of Twentynine Palms
(I counted, there are more than 29 in town), outside the northwestern park
boundaries. There is also the Cottonwood Visitor Center on the southeastern
side of the park. It is inside the boundary.
Joshua Tree National Park started out as a National Monument in 1936 and became a National Park in 1994.
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| The Park's namesake |
The name, Joshua tree, was given by a group of Mormon settlers crossing the Mojave Desert in the mid-19th century. The tree's shape reminded them of a Biblical story in which Joshua reaches his hands up to the sky in prayer.
Joshua trees grow quickly for a desert plant; new seedlings
may grow at an average rate of three inches a year for the first ten years,
then only about one and a half inches per year afterwards. Because the trunk is
made of tightly packed fibers, it has no annual growth rings, making it
difficult to determine the tree's age. They can live for hundreds to a thousand
years and reach 50 ft. tall.
Although we were at the park during the season
that Joshua trees bloom, we didn’t see many flowers. Joshua trees are one of
the species predicted to have their range reduced and shifted by climate change,
leading to concern that they will die out in Joshua Tree National Park. And, that would be a shame.
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| Becca, Caty ... and me |
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| Lots of trees |
In addition to Joshua tree forests, the western part of the
park features hills of bare rock, usually broken up into loose boulders. The
park's oldest rocks are 1.7 billion years old up in the mountains. Other rocks are 75 to 250 million years old.
The rock formations owe their shape to groundwater erosion and flash flooding.
The park also features a wide array of cacti, most in the lower
Colorado Desert. I love the “Cholla Forest,” a broad swath of “jumping” cholla
cacti (also called “Teddy Bear Cactus” for its shape, not its softness) mixed
with ocotillo, creosote, sage, prickly pear and beavertail cacti.
Those babies
really jump, too. I spent a lot of time prying them off my pants legs.
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| Lots of cactus |
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| Jumped right on me! |
OK, so they don't actually jump. It's just that the individual stem segments of the plant are only weakly attached. The slightest touch will detach them. They easily fall off and attach themselves to passing animals (or people) and that's how they propagate. Around every cholla plant is a ring of cute little baby cacti just waiting to be picked up for a ride.
Joshua Tree National park was fairly crowded on the day we were there. But, it was a weekend. We saw lots of tourists plus some rock climbers and hikers. Late winter and early spring are nice times to visit because it can get very, very hot in the summer.
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| Taking a photo |
Joshua Tree is a “dark sky” area, but with the overcast and
rain, I don’t think we would have been able to see anything had we stayed close by for the night.
When I was in Joshua Tree National Park in March 2015 (incidentally on the exact same date as this trip), the Milky Way was spectacular.
I think that staying nearby might have given us a better opportunity to see animals -- maybe Javelinas, Kit Foxes or Coyotes (or even a Bobcat). But driving back and forth wasn't too bad and we didn't have to schlepp luggage up and down stairs.
It was a fun day with some fairly good (and authentic) Mexican food for lunch.
The drive back to Seal Beach in the rain wasn't a lot of fun because the roads were winding, steep and dark. But, we did need to get back for a whale watch the next day.
Since it was still gloomy, we were crossing our fingers that we wouldn't get drenched on the whale watch.
On my next posts, I will talk about whales and showbiz (you don’t hear that combination very often).
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| So much fun with my girls |
It was a fun day with some fairly good (and authentic) Mexican food for lunch.
The drive back to Seal Beach in the rain wasn't a lot of fun because the roads were winding, steep and dark. But, we did need to get back for a whale watch the next day.
Since it was still gloomy, we were crossing our fingers that we wouldn't get drenched on the whale watch.
On my next posts, I will talk about whales and showbiz (you don’t hear that combination very often).
Trip date: March 8-14, 2018

























































